Sunday, August 5, 2012
How to get closer to our children?
How to get closer to our children? A proposed simple but very useful and efficient.
Do not judge by the kind of parent you have been, no need to change big things in you, you just need to be willing, willing to invest an hour of your valuable time ... and the week.
At that time you will have to be humble couple important and impressive send a message to your son or daughter. If you have more than one child, will be one hour each. Agenda that hour as the most important commitment of your week and you give importance to the meeting of the club, friends, group marriages, the board work, etc.. What will you do in that hour? Quite simply, share an activity with your child, but with the rules of his or hers. Yes, if your son or daughter wants to draw, you draw what she does, if you want to eat an ice cream, eat the same snow that he or she play fut. Do not you dare impose your rules or try to suggest another activity, or modify, or give suggestions! this time are the rules of your son or daughter. ultimately did not propose anything bad or harmful.
Finally there will enjoy it and start your profit. Doing what your son or daughter does, you'll be sending a powerful message to your unconscious. the message is: "I matter ... well, that this man is so powerful that dad is doing what I do, or this woman so powerful that it controls everything, my mother is following and enjoy what I I am important "your son or daughter will feel important, and you begin to change attitudes, to feel more connected or attached to you, with more appreciation and affection to the surface.
P r u e b a l o!! It works. The remaining time can the Pope's mother ever, but this time you will protect yourself or the use of power and sometimes they express abandonment by our diverse and very justifiable reasons.
Leave your comments Tell us your experience, your results. Soon the opening of the Conference: "Communication between parents and children" City Cuauhtémoc, Chihuahua. October 6. www.jorgemorales.mx
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