Why Can not I have couple? Discover The "illnesses" SINGLES

All persons who are single are single for a reason. As suggested by experts in relationships (Seduquere.com, 2010), single people often lack a piece that prevents them from solving the puzzle of love.

My intention here is to talk about the various problems that singles have time to find a partner to help you identify what the piece is lost. If you're reading this article because you belong to this select group of people who want to improve your love life and sex and are not satisfied with their current situation.

Find out what right now what the problem.

MEETING NO PARTNER: EST WHERE? MY PROBLEM?

Many people who are without a partner does not know where the problem is. Seduce and conquer other people find it especially difficult and feel lost. Only by knowing your problem or "disease" you can remedy it. In fact, every "disease" are single not only shows a few specific symptoms but has a specific solution through changes in behavior.

So, what are these diseases.

1. Stage Fright: The problem of love signals

One of the most widespread problems in people single issue and focuses on signs of seduction properly. Just as traffic signals, we can assume that:

Red: indicates no interest. Yellow shows that there may be action. Green indicates that there is interest and it's time we met. These signals are usually carried out through body language, and especially eye contact. However, there is much confusion about how to use eye contact to flirt. In principle, it is crucial to keep his eyes just in time.

In the case of women, to send a green signal to a man is necessary to maintain eye contact during the time just say "you're really attractive" in your head. Thus, to show interest in ocular fixation is recommended and appropriate body language (trying not to turn away, for example). It is important to note that 80 percent of cases are women who choose their partners and men are those who respond to such a choice doing something (approaching, initiating a conversation).

But for a man approaching the woman must send green signals, and that it be able to see them. Therefore, from the perspective of seduction, the syndrome of love signals if:

You feel uncomfortable / to make eye contact. You feel uncomfortable / a looking for eye contact. You look for another site when you are interested by someone in place to establish a second eye contact (eye contact, the second is seen as a powerful green signal). 2. Rupturitis: The problem of not being prepared

A significant number of people begin to seduce and flirt after the breakup of a relationship emotionally unprepared. This carries risks because soon things get serious and lacks the stability necessary to build a new relationship. In these situations, the first thing you do is get over the break and overcome grief it causes emotional.

So rupturitis syndrome includes:

Increase the number of romantic relationships after a breakup. Find couple trying to retrieve the things you gave a previous relationship. 3. Rechazofobia: Fear of rejection

This syndrome occurs when we avoid sending signals of flirting and seduction for fear of being rejected, especially present in the case of men. The rejection must be understood as part of the game of seduction, not a personal failure. In this sense, when someone rejects you barely know is not based on how you are as individuals, but in a multitude of factors that often have little to do with you.

The symptoms of this "disease" of seduction are:

Avoid the number of encounters with people you attract, for fear of rejection. Thinking that if I reject it because they serve as a person. Always wait for a better opportunity to flirt. 4. Amiguitis: The problem of "I just want to be your friend / a"

This is a problem that many men complain. Men who have fallen into this category are at the opposite end to become a lover. The strategy of having many friends seems to be effective only in appearance. Although many men agree to meet many women, hoping to get to the next level never come true (with some exceptions).

One suffers amiguitis when:

Women always think of you as a friend. Think that they should take the first step and you should always treat them as asexual beings. You have many more friends amigos.5. Desesperitis

When someone is desperate to find a partner makes a strong message that something is wrong in your life or relationships with others. This leads to more frutración and loneliness, and more need to have a relationship.

It is important to remember that desperate people is extremely unattractive. Desesperitis symptoms are:

Change your priorities for a person who just conocer.Cambiar of opinion as expressed by other people.This always available to anyone interested amorosamente.6 me. Success Disorder

This "condition" the suffering of those who have enjoyed success in love and in his professional life. Tends to reduce the vision of those who suffer and consider any potential mates as inferior or unskilled.

In these cases, the features are:

Those who are interested in you feel intimidated by your inalcanzable.Tratar presencia.Mostrar an image of others as subordinates or empleados.CONCLUSIÓN

This article has attempted to reflect the different types of problems that hinder the achievement of a satisfactory relationship singles. Many of these "diseases" have easy and fast healing.

It is time to identify the problem and put solution.

For more information, see How to find a partner.

Bibliography? A

Seduquere (2010). "Behavioral Seduction Method.." Retrieved on September 5, 2010.

Sam van Rood. (2006). Teach Yourself Flirting - with CD (Teach Yourself General). London: McGraw-Hill.